The Perils of Judging the “Woke”: A Cultural Roadblock to Growth

The word “woke,” once a clarion call for awareness and advocacy, has been twisted into a cultural weapon—a term used to mock, discredit, and dismiss individuals championing equality and progress. This hijacking of meaning has not only sullied its original intention but has created a cultural narrative steeped in division and stagnation. The question demands a reckoning—why do so many choose judgment over understanding when it comes to those deemed “woke”? And perhaps more urgently, what is the cost of this pervasive resistance to change?

The term “woke” originated as a badge of awareness, a call to remain vigilant in recognizing systemic injustices and advocating for those marginalized. But in the hands of its detractors, it has become a tool of ridicule—a dismissive slur against those striving to illuminate uncomfortable truths. By weaponizing the very idea of social progress, detractors avoid engagement, casting discussions around equity, justice, and inclusivity as overly idealistic or even absurd. It’s far easier to paint advocates as out-of-touch extremists than to confront the deeply embedded biases that perpetuate inequality.

This deliberate misrepresentation serves a specific purpose—it creates cultural inertia. It allows individuals to remain within the safety of their entrenched beliefs and justifies their resistance to examining their behaviors, values, and roles within an unequal system.

To judge is to close oneself off. It is an act of negation—of someone else’s perspective, context, and humanity. The judgment directed at so-called “woke” individuals is not just an attack on ideas; it’s a calculated refusal to move forward. It perpetuates fear, a paralyzing belief that change threatens rather than liberates.

What lies beneath this resistance? Fear of the unfamiliar. An aversion to discomfort. A sense of loss when the narratives of power, privilege, and control that one takes for granted begin to slip away. For those on the receiving end of progress’s demands, being “woke” is erroneously framed as a personal affront rather than a societal opportunity.

Ironically, judgment against “woke” advocates unintentionally reveals judgment against self. It offers permission for those who resist change to remain rooted in outdated paradigms that often perpetuate harm. If evolution is central to the human experience, refusing to engage in progress is, in effect, the refusal to evolve.

What happens when we step outside of judgment—and into inquiry instead? When we view “wokeness” not as a threat, but as an invitation? Being “woke” at its core is a philosophy rooted in empathy. It asks, “How can I see the humanity in others more fully?” To dismiss this ethos as overzealous is to dismiss the possibility of a society that values justice, equity, and connection.

To engage with the principles behind “wokeness” is to participate in a grander act of cultural evolution. It requires that we pause our cynicism and approach these conversations with a willingness to learn—to consider why certain groups feel unseen or unheard, and to ask how we, as individuals and communities, can do better.

This work doesn’t absolve. Nor does it place blame. It simply requires an honest assessment of one’s accountability in building a better world. Moving beyond judgment is not just altruistic; it’s necessary. Societies that stagnate in fear of progress crumble under the weight of their own refusal to adapt.

The antidote to judgment is empathy, and that is what “wokeness” asks from all of us. It asks for the courage to step outside oneself—to see from perspectives steeped in lived experiences vastly different from our own. It does not mean agreeing on all fronts, nor does it demand universal or blind adoption of every new idea. Instead, it encourages conversation over dismissal, action over inaction, and mindfulness over fear.

Imagine the possibilities of a society where this ethos is embraced fully and deeply. Where instead of balking at calls for equity, we meet them with curiosity. Where, instead of assuming malevolence in social progress, we assume shared humanity. A society without judgment does not mean a society without boundaries, but one where boundaries are created from a foundation of understanding and collective well-being.

Cultural resistance to the so-called “woke” phenomenon is, at its root, resistance to transformation. By staying anchored in critique and judgment, we risk leaving vast swathes of our societal potential untouched—marooned in the broken narratives of yesterday.

To judge advocates for change is to shortchange possibility itself. It’s to stifle the empathy that enables us to connect beyond division and create systems that celebrate equity over dominance. If judgment is the wall that keeps us stuck in the past, empathy is the doorway that moves us through it.

The time has come to reconsider our reflex to label, caricature, or scoff at “wokeness.” Instead, we must see it for what it is—a mirror reflecting our own spaces for growth.

If we truly wish to evolve—not just as individuals but as a culture—we must resist the impulse to fear progress. We must dare to engage. To listen. To change. Because the cost of judgment is steep, and the rewards of empathy might just be boundless.

The Crisis of Judgment Against the “Woke”: A Call for Cultural and Spiritual Reflection

Labels are powerful. They can uplift and unite, but equally, they can silence and divide. Nowhere is this clearer than in the weaponization of the term “woke.” Once intended as an acknowledgment of awareness to systemic injustices in our society, it has been twisted into a pejorative—a rhetorical bludgeon to dismiss, mock, and invalidate efforts toward progress.

But what lies beneath this judgment against those deemed “woke”? And what does it say about us as a society and, more importantly, as spiritual beings? To put it plainly, such judgment reveals an unsettling resistance to growth, a clinging to the comfort of an outdated status quo, and even a betrayal of the very moral and spiritual tenets that many claim to hold dear.

When did compassion and the pursuit of justice become an act of subversion? To be “woke” in its truest sense is to open one’s eyes—to confront uncomfortable truths about inequality, racism, sexism, and other systemic ills that persist. And yet, for many, this awakening is seen not as enlightenment, but as a threat.

The term has become a modern scarlet letter, slung as an insult to dismiss any effort to address social inequities, as though doing so is somehow dangerous.

But ask yourself, what is at the root of this resistance?

  • Fear.
  • Fear of what unsettling truths may emerge.
  • Fear of losing privilege, or comfort
  • Fear that whispers it’s easier to mock change than to make it.

When we judge “woke” individuals, we are doing more than rejecting their calls for change. We are refusing to evolve. Judging from a place of dismissal allows the status quo to remain unchallenged. Worse, it gives tacit permission to ignore or perpetuate behaviors that harm both individuals and society at large. This stagnation traps us in a culture desperately clutching at outdated norms while the future waits for us to align ourselves with justice and equity.

Progress—true progress—demands discomfort. It asks us to look within and confront our biases and beliefs. To cling to judgment of others, instead of reflecting on our own role in systemic issues, is to reject that sacred growth.

Nowhere is this resistance to change more perplexing than in the politicization of Christianity. Increasingly, certain factions within the faith—those aligning themselves under the banner of “anti-woke”—actively rebel against the teachings of Jesus Christ.

Christ’s message was revolutionary in its love and inclusiveness. It was a call to serve “the least of these,” to pursue justice, and to love one another unconditionally. Yet, these teachings are being supplanted by rhetoric steeped in fear, exclusion, and outright judgment. How did a faith centered on compassion become a tool to uphold intolerance?

This departure is tragic on many levels, but most profoundly, it represents an abandonment of the courage Christ demanded of his followers. To follow in His footsteps is not to espouse judgment or superiority. It is to seek understanding, to dismantle frameworks of oppression, and to hold a mirror up to oneself with honesty and humility.

Critics often accuse woke culture of pandering to political correctness, but in truth, it is far from superficial. It is about cultivating an awakening—a deep awareness and acknowledgment of the systemic structures that perpetuate injustice.

To reject such awareness is to deny the reality of those who live on the receiving end of inequities. It is to turn away from the suffering of fellow human beings. Being “woke” is nothing more complex than being attuned to this suffering and willing to act in the face of it. And yet, for some, it is easier to brand such an effort as misguided than to pause and critically examine their own complicity in these systems.

The path forward is not more judgment, not more rhetoric. It is dialogue, curiosity, and humility. Imagine for a moment what would happen if, instead of dismissing so-called woke individuals, we chose to listen.

Listening doesn’t demand agreement, but it asks us to reflect. It asks us to understand the histories and perspectives that shape another’s beliefs. It asks us to engage. Only then can empathy grow, and only empathy can build a culture founded on compassion and justice.

It is easy to dismiss. It is easy to judge. What is hard—and important—is to look inward and ask, “Am I contributing to progress or standing silently in the way?”

If you hold judgment in your heart for those advocating for change, I invite you to ask why. What part of yourself wants to cling to this disdain? What truth are you avoiding?

History shows us that progress is inevitable. Civil rights movements—past and present—have always been met with resistance. But at every turning point, those who fought for inclusion, equity, and love were proven right. They were the real agents of growth, the ones who challenged society to become better, to live closer to its professed ideals.

To stand in judgment against those advocating for a better world is to align oneself with a dying past, a faltering status quo that cannot withstand the tide of awakened humanity. Perhaps it is time to choose evolution over resistance, curiosity over judgment, and compassion over fear.

As Christ himself taught, “Judge not, that you be not judged” (Matthew 7:1). Will we continue to rebel against this divine wisdom? Or will we choose to participate in the unfolding of a kinder, more equitable world?

The choice rests with each of us.


Bruce Paullin

Born in 1955, married in 1994 to Sharon White