Bridging the Chasm Between Divine Love and Human Misjudgment

The contemporary world is marked by ideological divides that seem wider than ever, particularly when addressing topics of faith, morality, and identity. One such divide has emerged in the discourse surrounding the LGBTQ+ community—a discourse that has, at times, been weaponized under the banner of religiosity by Christians, pseudo-Christians, Jewish thinkers, and other individuals claiming moral authority. But in this landscape of misunderstanding and projection, we must ask ourselves: is this truly the will of God, or does it merely reflect the human condition’s penchant for fear and self-righteousness?

If we are to grapple with this question, we must first untangle the threads of divine intention from human malfeasance.

At the heart of most religious traditions lies the omnipotent force of love—unconditional, boundless, and transcending earthly limitations. Yet, as fallible beings, humans have often failed to fully apprehend this foundational principle. Somewhere along the way, this divinely unconditional love has been replaced with the flawed constructs of judgment and exclusion.

The truth is evident in the way scripture has been wielded as a tool—not to uplift, but to condemn; not to bring people together, but to widen the chasm of misunderstanding between communities. Many claim their actions, words, or beliefs are inspired by God’s will, yet these displays of hatred and rejection bear little resemblance to the divine love described in sacred texts. Instead, they reflect a wayward sense of self—one ensnared by fear, ego, and a desperate need to assert control.

The projection of hatred upon the LGBTQ+ community isn’t rooted in divine love or moral certitude—it is rooted in a dissonance between the individual’s inner turmoil and their responsibility to uphold love. Projection, in this sense, is a rebellion against spiritual maturity.

To understand this, we must acknowledge that hatred often stems from an internalized insecurity. When a person encounters another who disrupts their worldview—whether through identity, belief, or experience—the discomfort they feel is rarely about the other person. Instead, it is their own inability to address the dissonance between what they believe to be true (or safe) and the reality unfolding before them.

This explains why many individuals project fear and hatred toward the LGBTQ+ community; it is not a reflection of God’s disapproval, but of their own fractured sense of self. They seek safety in absolutes and cling to dogmatic interpretations of scripture that offer certainty. Yet, in doing so, they become disconnected from the fluid, accepting, and profoundly inclusive nature of divine love.

To label others as “deviant” or “sinful” while simultaneously ignoring the command to “love your neighbor as yourself” is a contradiction that speaks volumes. Scripture repeatedly emphasizes love, forgiveness, and humility as cornerstones of faith. Love is presented not merely as a virtue but as a challenge—a call to extend grace even when it is uncomfortable.

Therefore, the ongoing strains between faith communities and the LGBTQ+ community illustrate a deeper crisis of spiritual consciousness. The chasm that has opened is not the result of divine will but of human waywardness. This chasm is a testament to our tendency to impose barriers where bridges are needed—to choose fear over understanding and self-preservation over selfless love.

How, then, do we repair this rift? The answer lies not in further condemnation or defenses of dogma but through radical inclusivity and self-reflection.

1. Questioning Intentions: When we invoke scripture to judge or exclude others, we must question whether our actions align more with divine principles or self-serving ideologies. Is the intolerance offered in service of love, or does it reflect a human fear of difference?

2. Rediscovering the Core of Faith: Returning to the idea of faith as an act of love is essential. Faith should not be understood as a rigid set of rules but as an evolving relationship between humanity and divinity—a relationship that calls for empathy over rigidity and understanding over judgment.

3. Learning from LGBTQ+ Communities: Instead of alienation, faith communities must seek dialogue with LGBTQ+ individuals. Recognizing their resilience, creativity, and love as gifts to humanity could illuminate pathways for spiritual solidarity. These individuals have often engaged in their own acts of faith by reconciling their identity with spirituality—a process that should be honored, not vilified.

4. Acknowledging Our Own Journey: None among us is without flaws, yet many are quick to throw stones under the guise of virtue. Faith invites continual self-discovery and growth, urging us to see the divine not only in ourselves but in others, no matter how unfamiliar their experiences may appear.

Ultimately, it is not our place as human beings to impose limits on God’s love. If divinity itself is limitless, can it not encompass LGBTQ+ individuals with the same grace and intention as anyone else? Every act of judgment veers us further from God’s will, replacing His boundless compassion with human fears that reduce, rather than elevate, our shared humanity.

The failure to accept and include others—especially those marginalized or misunderstood—underscores humanity’s greatest spiritual error. The more we project hatred outward, the further we wander from our true purpose.

Instead of perpetuating fear or alienation, may we strive to unify. May we create faith communities brimming with the kind of love that erases divisions, affirms human dignity, and reflects the unconditional nature of the divine. It is only then, in the space where hatred fades and love is allowed to flourish, that we will find God waiting to welcome us all.9

Faith communities and individual believers alike must ask themselves challenging but necessary questions. Are we projecting our own fears as divine truth? Are we misinterpreting scripture to justify exclusion? Are we reflecting God’s will, or are we co-creating a fractured world in our own image?

The answers are not always easy, but they hold the key to building a reality where divine love triumphs over human discord. The task may seem daunting, but with a commitment to humility, introspection, and love, it is far from impossible.

The Chasm Between Love and Hate: Reflecting on Spiritual Purpose and LGBQT Acceptance

Throughout history, divisive ideologies have tested the strength of humanity’s collective compassion. Among the most poignant and deeply entrenched of these divisions is the projection of hatred onto the LGBQT community—a projection that, while often cloaked in the language of religious or moral righteousness, reveals not the divine will, but the deep-seated malfeasance of the human heart. It is a chasm—a stark divide between love and the misguided pursuit of self-righteousness.

This is not a new struggle; it is one that repeats itself, woven into the tapestry of human history. Yet, amidst this cyclical discord, something urgent calls for our attention. It is a question of alignment—of asking whether our words and actions truly resonate with divine love or whether they serve a fractured and “wayward sense of self.” To choose hate under the guise of principle is to abandon the very essence of love—an essence that lies at the core of all God-inspired teachings, regardless of doctrine or dogma.

The Darkness of Projection

Hatred rarely manifests itself in honest terms; instead, it cloaks itself in rationalizations. It justifies its existence. It aligns itself with the familiar, with tribal loyalty, or the comfort of an “us versus them” narrative. But this hatred—for the LGBQT community or for any group of individuals—does not stem from scripture, divine teachings, or righteous inspiration.

Rather, judgment and exclusion spring forth from the spiritual shadows of ignorance and fear. This is where light does not reach—the corners of the soul unexamined. It is within these shadows that humanity distorts love into control, misunderstanding into persecution, and righteousness into arrogance.

Pseudo-Christian thought sometimes converts universal truths into blunt tools, wielded to create “in-groups” and “out-groups.” Similarly, in even wider societal realms, individuals find it easier to demonize differences than to interrogate the depths of their own discomfort or fear. This is projection. It is the displacement of one’s inner chaos onto the external “other,” and seldom does it have anything to do with the inherent worth of those it targets.

What is God’s Will?

“God is love,” declare the scriptures, over and again. Not once does it proclaim God as division. Not as hatred. Not as rejection. The teachings of Christ stand firmly on love’s foundation. Whether in the parable of the Good Samaritan, or the command to “love your neighbor as yourself,” the message is clear and unrelenting—God’s will is not fulfilled through exclusion or malice.

It bears reflection that the foundation of God’s will is unity, a divine harmony that transcends human constructs of difference. Within the framework of Judeo-Christian ethics, love acts not as an abstract concept, but as a deliberate act of connection—a willing surrender to the vulnerability of shared humanity.

To willfully cast out or reject another—simply because their identity or existence challenges personal comfort—is not an act of love. It is not an act of God. It is an indulgence of ego. God’s voice is infinitely louder in acts of compassion than in the baseless projection of condemnation.

Hate as a Chasm of the Soul

Hatred, in many ways, is easier. It requires no effort to demonize. It demands no self-reflection to label something unfamiliar as “wrong” or “against God.” Love, however, requires courage. Love requires a process of sitting in uncomfortable spaces and tearing apart the constructs of our own biases.

Hatred creates chasms within the soul—gaps that separate us from divine purpose. To hate is to dig trenches between oneself and God’s infinite proximity. For when one turns away from love, they do not alienate those they hate; they alienate themselves.

Jesus himself flipped tables in the temple, disrupted the comfort of societal norms, and stepped into spaces where others refused to go. Christ’s message did not cater to tradition for its own sake. Christianity, at its core, is an invitation to transcend—even to transcend the seemingly immutable doctrines human beings have created to serve their own ideals.

A Call for Universal Healing

Thus, in light of growing discord in theological and wider sociopolitical spaces, it is time for thinkers, believers, and creators alike—Christian, pseudo-Christian, Jewish, or otherwise inspired—to resist the seduction of divisive fear. It is time to see projection for what it is and dismantle it with unwavering honesty.

And it is time to stand unwaveringly against the weaponization of faith, especially when wielded to fracture God’s children, rather than unite them.

Acknowledging and supporting the LGBQT community is not an affront to faith—it is an affirmation of it. It is a bold proclamation of belief in a God who transcends human prejudice and revels in diversity as a reflection of divine creativity.

When we project hatred, we allow external darkness—misinformation, ignorance, and fear—to take root within us. Love, however, illuminates. It rises beyond superficial “right” and “wrong” and pierces through ego to reveal the deeper truths God has left for us.

Moving Toward Love

Love requires active participation. To truly bridge the chasms hatred creates, we must actively seek to dismantle the biases that justify hatred in the guise of righteousness.

Ask yourself, deeply and truthfully—what is the fruit of my belief or action? Does it lead to division, or does it bring forth the rich harvest of connection and understanding? If your actions breed judgment or rejection, then perhaps it is time to question whose will you are truly following. Is it God’s—or the fractured cries of one’s own wayward self?

Ultimately, it is only by actively choosing love, lighting the shadowed spaces of ignorance, and surrendering our stubborn projections, that we fulfill what is truly divine. The path of hatred and judgment serves no one—not the oppressed, not the oppressor, and not the divine.

Love, in all its forms, exists without contradiction to faith. It is faith lived out loud. It is faith unashamed of compassion. To every soul willing to hear, the call to love remains constant—a bridge wide enough to cross even the deepest chasms.


Bruce Paullin

Born in 1955, married in 1994 to Sharon White