You Can’t Be Real, Revisited—Beyond Duality: Rethinking Our Existence in Cosmic Consciousness

In exploring the profound nature of existence and divinity, one concept challenges our most fundamental understandings of self and reality: if God or cosmic consciousness is an infinite, universal presence, then it inherently operates beyond the confines of object-subject duality. This realization posits that any concept of “you” or “I,” in the way we traditionally comprehend, is, in fact, an illusion within the absolute reality of divine consciousness. This perspective shakes the very foundations upon which many of our spiritual and religious beliefs are built, urging a radical realignment of how we see ourselves and the universe.

Firstly, we must consider the nature of an infinite, universal entity such as God or what some might refer to as cosmic consciousness. By its very definition, “infinite” means without limit or end—boundless. In such a context, the limitations implied by duality, the dichotomy of subject and object, simply cannot exist. If all that exists is enveloped within this boundless entity, then the distinctions we draw between “me” and “not me” fade into insignificance. In an absolute sense, the individuated self we cling to—our ego—is illusory.

Viewing our existence from the perspective of cosmic consciousness reveals a vision of oneness where individual identities are mere constructs of the mind. This is not to say that the experience of “I” is not real—indeed, it is a powerful and persuasive aspect of human existence. However, at a fundamental level, this sense of individuality is not a separate entity but a transient expression of something far greater and infinitely unified. This understanding shifts the goalpost for many spiritual traditions, moving away from a personal relationship with the divine to a realization of being an inseparable part of it.

This insight into the nature of existence naturally challenges traditional religious and spiritual paradigms that focus on the salvation, enlightenment, or liberation of the individual soul. If the individual, as a separate entity, is an illusion, the emphasis on personal godhood or individual accomplishment in the spiritual domain demands reevaluation. It questions practices and beliefs centered around personal identity and calls for a more holistic understanding of spirituality, one that emphasizes the interconnectedness of all.

Accepting non-duality and the illusory nature of the self can lead to a profound transformation in consciousness. Such awareness nurtures a sense of unity and compassion that transcends conventional boundaries of ego and identity. Viewing oneself and others as manifestations of the same cosmic consciousness fosters a sense of universal love and interconnectedness. It presents a path to peace and understanding that is deeply needed in our world today.

While these ideas may seem abstract or philosophical, they hold significant practical implications. How we perceive ourselves and the ‘other’ influences every aspect of our lives—from the way we engage with one another to how we approach challenges and conflicts. Recognizing the interconnectedness of all existence prompts a more compassionate, empathetic approach to life. It encourages actions rooted in love rather than division, fostering a more inclusive, peaceful society.

Evolving our understanding of self and consciousness to encompass these broader realities is not merely an intellectual exercise but a necessary evolution for the collective spiritual advancement of humanity. By realizing the interconnected nature of all things and the illusory divide between the self and the universe, we open ourselves to a more profound, inclusive, and compassionate way of being. This shift in perspective is not a denial of personal experience but an expansion of it—into the infinite.


Bruce

Presently, I am 67 years old, and I am learning how to live the life of a retired person. I am married to Sharon White, a retired hospice nurse, and writer. Whose Death Is It Anyway-A Hospice Nurse Remembers Sharon is a wonderful friend and life partner of nearly 30 years. We have three grandsons through two of Sharon's children. I am not a published writer or poet. My writings are part of my new life in retirement. I have recently created a blog, and I began filling it up with my writings on matters of recovery and spirituality. I saw that my blog contained enough material for a book, so that is now my new intention, to publish a book, if only so that my grandsons can get to know who their grandfather really was, once I am gone. The title for my first book will be: Penetrating The Conspiracy Of Silence, or, How I Lived Beyond My Expiration Date I have since written 7 more books, all of which are now posted on this site. I have no plans to publish any of them, as their material is not of general interest, and would not generate enough income to justify costs. I have taken a deep look at life, and written extensively about it from a unique and rarely communicated perspective. Some of my writing is from 2016 on to the present moment. Other writing covers the time prior to 1987 when I was a boy, then an addict and alcoholic, with my subsequent recovery experience, and search for "Truth". Others are about my more recent experiences around the subjects of death, dying, and transformation, and friends and family having the most challenging of life's experiences. There are also writings derived from my personal involvement with and insight into toxic masculinity, toxic religion, toxic capitalism, and all of their intersections with our leadere. These topics will not be a draw for all people, as such personal and/or cultural toxicities tends to get ignored, overlooked, or "normalized" by those with little time for insight, introspection, or interest in other people's points of view on these troubling issues. There also will be a couple of writings/musings about "GOD", but I try to limit that kind of verbal gymnastics, because it is like chasing a sunbeam with a flashlight. Yes, my books are non-fiction, and are not good reading for anybody seeking to escape and be entertained. Some of the writings are spiritual, philosophical and intellectual in nature, and some descend the depths into the darkest recesses of the human mind. I have included a full cross section of all of my thoughts and feelings. It is a classic "over-share", and I have no shame in doing so. A Master Teacher once spoke to me, and said "no teacher shall effect your salvation, you must work it out for yourself". "Follow new paths of consciousness by letting go of all of the mental concepts and controls of your past". This writing represents my personal work towards that ultimate end.