Chapter 26-28;  The Pitfalls of Religious Conformity: A Call for Enhanced Curiosity, And A Potential End To Patriarchy

In the historic pantheon of human behavior, religion has stood as one of civilization’s oldest pillars. Belief systems and sacred rituals have sculpted societal norms and individual identities across the millennia, offering solace and existential anchors. However, as humanity progresses into an age where information flows freely and the scientific method has illuminated many of the universe’s dark corners, the insistence on rigid conformity to ancient religious ideologies demands scrutiny.

Undeniably, religions have contributed significantly to the ethical frameworks and cultural narratives we cherish. Yet, the unyielding worship of these traditional systems often stifles the curiosity that ignites the flame of inquiry and innovation. When we subscribe to dogmatic views with no room for questioning, we are renouncing the very pursuit of knowledge that propels society forward.

The nurturing of curiosity is not merely a cultural or intellectual ambition; it has tangible impact on our neurological welfare. Our brains are wondrous landscapes of potential, shaped by neuroplasticity—the ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections throughout life. This quality ensures our capacity to learn from and adapt to our experiences. However, when we surrender to monolithic belief structures that discourage questioning, we limit our brain’s plasticity, effectively capping its growth and dexterity.

Resistant to change, such ideologies can often negate the importance of present moment awareness—another casualty of inflexible religious adherence. For example, many of America’s present Catholic leaders are guilty of excessive preoccupation with dogmatic interpretations of the past or eschatological visions of the future. Pope Francis even stated that  US based conservative Catholic leaders have a “suicidal attitude”. This stubborn clinging to entrenched religious bias can blind us to the richness and opportunities teeming in the now. Direct perception of reality, unclouded by archaic precepts, allows us to make more conscious decisions, fostering an environment where wisdom and compassion can thrive.

This is not an assault on the merits of spirituality or the quest for meaning that religion can address—it is a call for a more critical and inquisitive approach to religious thought. It is an urge to practice spiritual and religious endeavors while refusing to abandon our natural curiosity and the evidence of our senses.  This is a call to be more intelligent, and less dogmatic.

We must be willing to examine and challenge our beliefs, regardless of their antiquity. By doing so, we can preserve our tradition’s beneficial aspects while shedding the shackles that might hinder our individual and collective growth. When we promote a culture of open inquiry and maintain an active engagement with our world, our sociocultural evolution does not stagnate—instead, it flourishes.

While respect for tradition has its place, we must balance it with a commitment to explorative thought and a responsible stewardship of our cognitive riches. It is imperative that we encourage a landscape in which faith and reason are not adversaries but collaborators in the quest to deepen our understanding of ourselves and of the universe we inhabit. The future is calling us to be both devout and inquisitive—to cherish our heritage while courageously charting new territories of the mind and spirit.

Chasing Shadows: How Religious Symbols Obscure Our Inner Divinity

In the tapestry of human culture, religion and spirituality thread through the ages as guiding yarns; their patterns and textures provide us with meaning and a sense of connection to something greater than ourselves. The sagas of deities, the reverence for icons, and the certitude of dogmas have indeed colored the existential queries that each soul encounters. Yet, as someone deeply invested in the exploration of our innermost being, I can’t help but raise the question: Have the very symbols and doctrines intended to bridge us to the divine begun to cast shadows upon our inherent sacred touchstones—intrinsic innocence and sacredness?

The embodiment of faith through idols and avatars serves as a canvas onto which we paint our spiritual aspirations. These representations offer a tangible grasp on the elusive nature of the sacred. However, in their elevation, they can inadvertently become spiritual crutches that distance us from the raw and profound simplicity of pure existence. Worship can then morph into idolatry; rather than facilitating our communion with the depths of consciousness, we become fixated on the symbols that should point beyond themselves.

Dogma is an alluring compass. Its structure and certainty can be comforting, but also confining. Like a maze whose walls grow higher with time and repetition, dogmatic beliefs can obstruct the panoramic view of spirituality’s boundless landscape. Each creed and each canon come with a litany of ‘shoulds’ and ‘must-nots’, which, while intended to guide, often end up prescribing a spirituality that is one-size-fits-all—a garment that can never accommodate the unique shape of each individual’s experience and realizations.

Religious structures, with their panoply of icons and avatars, often encourage us to categorize and compare. This segmentation into heavens and hells, chosen ones and others, marks a stark departure from the quintessential essence of spirituality—unity. The danger lies not in the diversity of expressions, but in our proclivity to cling to those expressions as ends in themselves, rather than as signposts to the interconnectivity that underpins existence. In doing so, we graft the seeds of judgment, otherness, and division onto a landscape that inherently knows no boundaries.

It is my conviction that we need to rekindle our relationship with the unadorned core of being—beneath the celebratory robes of religious ceremony or the stern armor of dogma. There’s a profound sacredness to each moment, to every breath, that need not be bestowed by externalities but is rather self-evident. It’s in the eyes of a child, the rhythm of the oceans, and the silence between thoughts. Innocence and sanctity require no intermediaries; their realization lies in shedding layers, not in donning them.

The invitation herein is not to discard the heritage of spiritual traditions, but to cultivate a personal consciousness that can dance with symbols without being restricted by their choreography. To question is not to disrespect; it is to ardently seek authenticity in our connection with the divine. Could it be that in binding ourselves to idols and icons, we have forgotten the language of the soul that speaks in silence—a language that communicates through the inherent sanctity of being?

The path laid before us is a perennial invitation to venture inward. In doing so, perhaps, we may come to recognize the futility in merely venerating the finger that points to the moon. It is the luminescent celestial dance we truly seek, the ineffable amity with existence—unmediated, direct, and steeped in the innocence of discovery. The reawakening to this innate sacred space within may well be the spiritual renaissance that beckons as humanity quests for deeper meaning in an era of profound transformation.

W9⁷hile navigating the richness of religious structures, the call to integrate the wisdom of avatars while anchoring ourselves to an unshakeable inner divinity remains a paramount endeavor. It is in the balance—between reverence for paths well-trodden and the courageous pursuit of direct communion—that perhaps true spirituality flourishes, uncontrived and free.

The Immutable Wisdom of Jewish Prohibition on Idols and Divine Utterance

The ancient Jewish tradition, with its roots that span back millennia, holds an enigmatic and profound stance on the sanctity of divine representation. This age-old wisdom, embedded deep within the fabric of the Abrahamic faith, urges a careful restraint—nay, an outright desistance—from the impulse to craft religious idols, or even to vocalize the inimitable name of God. It is a paradigmatic stance that, in light of modern spiritual challenges, continues to illuminate a path to transcendence, urging an undivided focus on the divine presence.

Judaic thought, with its focus on monotheism, seeks to portray the Almighty as an omnipresent entity without form or representation. This notion, so pivotal in the Abrahamic branches, holds a philosophical rigor that eschews any attempt to encapsulate the divine within material constructs. The very idea that a mortal hand could shape a divine representation, and that a mere mortal tongue could enunciate the unspeakable name of God, is fraught with perilous implications.

The Creation narrative itself upholds the sacredness of unity; the very first commandment, “Thou shalt have no other gods before Me,” is a paragon of unambiguous devotion. Idols, in their physical embodiment, hint at a stratification of the divine realm—a notion antithetical to the unitary stance Judaism propagates. Uttering the divine name, considered ineffable, similarly runs the risk of not only profanity but also of reducing the grandeur of the divine into the routine of mortal speech.

In the modern epoch, where representation and projection shape much of our interaction with the world, the danger of idolatry has not waned. If anything, it has merely taken new forms—our idols are now constructed of pixels, projected on screens, and our understanding of the divine can be as fleeting and superficial as the next trending hashtag. The ubiquity with which the name of God is used, often in vain, further underscores a pervasive trivialization of the sacred.

Idolatry, in this refracted worldview, does not merely pertain to the casting of molten calves or the adoration of anthropomorphic figures. It extends to our very system of belief and the materializations it adopts, however subtle or abstract. We have inadvertently created a cornucopia of modern idols—be it in the celebrity icon, the consumer product, or even in the discourse that pits one version of divine will against another.

This Jewish tenet, though rooted in religious doctrine, offers an overarching principle that transcends the bounds of any specific faith. It is an exhortation towards a gestalt perception of the world, one that recognizes the interconnectedness of all existence under the umbrella of a singular divine essence. When this monolithic perspective is fractured, as it is through the myriad idols and name-calling, we sow the seeds of discord and spiritual entropy.

It compels us to reassess the depth of our spiritual encounters and the sanctity we allow them. In navigating our relationship with the divine, it beckons us to still the tumult of needlessly profuse references and representations, and to rediscover a simpler, undiluted connection that requires neither intermediary nor intermediary’s artefacts. The human tendency to reduce complexities to comprehensible paradigms is a perpetual challenge against which this tradition is a bulwark.

The application of this traditional wisdom is not solely the province of the pious. It implores each seeker, irrespective of faith, to engage in a kind of sporadic act of spiritual minimalism—cutting the clutter and returning to the core tenets of belief. One might ponder, with a tinge of irony, the ease with which we compile but the reluctance with which we decompile these personal pantheons; yet, the promise they hold is not one of easy enlightenment or temporal pleasure, but the pursuit of a profound, abiding connection with the divine.

To pursue such a mode of interaction with the numinous is to undergo a tectonic shift in perspective, where encounters with the sacred are no longer mediated through crafted forms but are veiled in the subtler symphonies of existence. For those willing to experiment with this deconstruction of the habitual, the possibility of unencumbered spiritual discovery unfolds, rich with the potential to carve a deeper, truer faith that transcends dogma.

Navigating the Idols of Modernity

The contemporary individual, ensconced in a world where the superficial often masquerades as sacred, must undertake a self-reckoning. It beckons a paradigm shift from the ostentatious exhibition of belief to the unadorned authenticity of it. The traditions of hesitation in crafting idols or invoking the name of God are not so much about moral repression as they are about recognizing the real from the transient, the ubiquitous from the unique.

In this light, one might read the ancient Jewish proscriptions not as straitjackets but as sacred guidelines that reclaim the sacredness of the mundane, and the holy from the hands of the merely devout. Idols, and the names of God, are but instruments—tools misapplied can cause injury, but employed with care and circumspection, they craft the very edifice of our spiritual lives.

The Jewish tradition, to a modern observer, might appear anachronistic or severe in its interdiction against idols and divine appellations. Yet, under the scrutiny of reasoned contemplation, it unfolds as an insightful directive towards an unfettered spirituality, emancipated from the dross of the everyday rift of the extraordinary. In a world where the line between the sacred and the profane, the divine and the mundane, has become increasingly blurred, this ancient wisdom serves as a guiding beacon—a homing signal for those willing to steer their faith through the nebulous seas of modernity.

The Judaic tradition’s tenets congeal into a resonant call—be vigilant, be discerning, and above all, be reverent. For in such a vigil lies the preservation of the sacred, and in such reverence, the prospect of a union with the divine unfettered by the burdens of duality and division. The silence that this tradition bequeaths is not one of absence, but of expectancy—a hushed, vibrant canvas upon which the divine might inscribe its mysteries. And in the stillness of our austerity, we may yet find that the sacred, in all its resplendent entirety, has been beckoning to us, all along.

The Collective Self-Organizing Principles of American Christianity and Democracy Are In Conflict:  Disentangling Corrupted Christian Practices from Democracy’s Fabric

At the core of a democracy, the intricate weave of its self-organizing and ordering principles maintains the tapestry of a free and just society. But what happens when religious practices, particularly those of the Christian faith, become entwined with insurrection, and in doing so, threaten to unravel the very fabric of democracy?

The events in the United States on January 6, 2021, stand as a stark reminder that religious ideologies, when corrupted, can be manipulated to incite actions that are antithetical to the foundational tenets of democratic society. The question we must grapple with is not about faith in itself, but rather the dangerous conflation of belief systems with the maintenance of public order and governance.  When the tainted self-organizing and ordering principles of Christianity swings dangerously close to Christian Nationalism, all citizens of all faiths, or no faiths, must come together to reestablish societal order.

Corrupted Christian practices can manifest in several ways, from the misinterpretation of scriptures to serve political agendas to the ideological grooming of congregations for violent ends. Such distorted practices deviate from the teachings of love, compassion, and service that Christianity, at its purest, advocates for. When these deviations are leveraged to mobilize support for violent uprisings, they represent a perversion of faith that warrants scrutiny and condemnation.

The danger of such corruptions lies in their ability to galvanize large segments of the population under the guise of religious fervor, leading to insurrectionist activities that not only threaten immediate political stability but also sow long-term distrust in the democratic process.  When these wayward souls listen to the fools, a dangerous mob rules.  The sinister hand of corrupted Christian practices extends beyond the dramatic scenes of insurrection to subtly weave its influence throughout the very essence of democratic principles. By eroding the trust in essential institutions, these practices undermine the ability of self-organizing democratic structures to function effectively.

What are some of the principles of an authentic Christian life?

  1. The Lordship of Christ and its love over all life and thoughts;
  2. The responsibility to love God with the whole being;
  3. To love all neighbors as if they were the lover’s self;
  4. The responsibility to pursue righteousness and practice justice and mercy to everyone.
  5. Participation in the worship and activities of the church. 

What are the principles of democracy are based upon?

1. Equality of Human Rights
2. Economic Freedom
3. Bill of Rights
4. The Rule of Law
5. Control of the Abuse of Power
6. Free and Fair Elections
7. Multi-party Systems
8. Citizen Participation
9. Accountability and Transparency
10. Independent Judiciary
11. Political Tolerance
12. Accepting the Results of Elections

Democracy relies on the collective participation of a citizenry that believes in the transparency and fairness of electoral processes and the rule of law. Attempts to subvert these principles in the name of any ideology, including Christianity, strike at the heart of the democratic system, severely compromising its ability to represent the will of the people.

The amalgamation of Christian practices with insurrection is a dire threat to democratic societies everywhere. It is crucial that individuals and leaders across political spectrums challenge the normalization of these acts and disentangle the respectable aspects of religious freedom from the seditious agendas of religious extremism.

Efforts to separate church and state, far from being anti-religious, are the guardrails that protect the integrity of both domains. Recognizing and affirming the right to religious belief while denouncing the use of those beliefs to justify insurrection is a foundational step in safeguarding the purity of democratic governance.

The stakes of disentanglement could not be higher. Failure to act decisively risks a future where the self-organizing and ordering principles of democracy are overshadowed by the chaotic dictates of zealotry. During a time of growing polarization, it is our collective responsibility to sustain the sanctity of democratic principles by upholding the spirit of fair representation and the rule of law, irrespective of the religious affiliations of those involved.

We must remain vigilant against any encroachments into democracy’s fabric, whether from Christian extremists, terrorists of any creed, or autocrats under the guise of piety. The principles of democracy demand such vigilance and, in their preservation, we find the greatest testament to our shared commitment to a free and just society.

The Imperative of Embracing the Divine Feminine: A Call for Balance in Our Patriarchal World

In the lexicon of human history, one prevailing force has consistently shaped our civilizations, guided our decisions, and influenced our socio-cultural frameworks: the patriarchal paradigm. This masculine-dominated worldview, centered on the principles of safety, security, and resource acquisition, has been remarkably effective in the context of a semi-civilized society or pre-civilized tribal community. However, as we navigate the complexities of the modern era, it becomes increasingly clear that this singular focus is not only outdated but also dangerously imbalanced.

The patriarchal paradigm, with its emphasis on control and acquisition, has infiltrated our world’s religions and cultural narratives, distorting our understanding of divine energy and cosmic balance. This masculine dominance is not merely a question of gender but a profound imbalance in the spiritual and cultural values that shape our existence. Until we rehabilitate these misunderstandings and create a harmonious narrative that elevates the divine feminine, we will remain ensnared in a cycle of chaos, instability, war, and ecological destruction.

For millennia, the patriarchal mindset has driven humanity’s progress, often at the expense of holistic understanding and ecological harmony. This worldview prioritizes strength, dominance, and material success, traits that were crucial for survival in early human societies. However, as our civilizations evolved, so too should our guiding principles.

Religions, which are meant to connect us with higher truths and divine energy, have not escaped the patriarchal influence. Many of the world’s major religions emphasize male authority and leadership, often relegating the feminine to secondary or supportive roles. This imbalance is not only evident in religious texts and practices but also in the cultural norms and societal structures influenced by these religions.

The consequences of this imbalance are stark. We live in a world where conflict is rampant, where natural resources are exploited without consideration for future generations, and where the quest for power often overshadows the pursuit of peace and understanding. This is the inevitable result of a worldview that values acquisition and control over harmony and compassion.

The solution lies in a fundamental shift in our spiritual and cultural narratives—one that recognizes and embraces the divine feminine. The divine feminine represents qualities such as intuition, compassion, nurturing, and interconnectedness. These are not merely feminine traits but essential human qualities that have been overshadowed by the patriarchal focus on power and control.

Rehabilitating our religious and cultural understandings involves bringing these qualities into the forefront of our consciousness. It means reinterpreting religious texts to highlight the feminine aspects of the divine, honoring female spiritual leaders, and fostering cultural practices that promote balance and inclusivity.

  1. Education and Awareness: The first step toward rehabilitation is education. By raising awareness about the imbalanced narratives that have shaped our world, we can begin to foster a more inclusive and balanced understanding of the divine. This includes revisiting religious texts, promoting feminist theology, and encouraging open discussions about the role of the divine feminine.
  2. Cultural Reformation: Cultural practices and societal norms must evolve to reflect a balanced worldview. This involves challenging patriarchal structures, advocating for gender equality, and promoting cultural expressions that celebrate both masculine and feminine qualities.
  3. Spiritual Practices: Integrating the divine feminine into spiritual practices can help individuals reconnect with these essential qualities. This might include meditation practices focused on compassion and interconnectedness, rituals that honor the feminine aspects of the divine, and spiritual teachings that emphasize balance and harmony.
  4. Environmental Stewardship: Recognizing the interconnectedness of all life is a core principle of the divine feminine. By adopting sustainable practices and fostering a deep respect for the natural world, we can begin to heal the ecological destruction wrought by a patriarchal mindset.

The journey toward a balanced paradigm is not without challenges, but it is essential for the future of humanity and our planet. By embracing both the masculine and feminine aspects of the divine, we can create a world that values harmony over conflict, compassion over control, and sustainability over exploitation.

This vision requires the collective efforts of spiritual seekers, cultural reform advocates, religious leaders, awakening men wherever they are,  and feminists. It demands courage, resilience, and a willingness to challenge deeply ingrained beliefs. But the rewards—an equitable, peaceful, and sustainable world—are worth the effort.

The path to a harmonious and balanced world is through the recognition and elevation of the divine feminine. By rehabilitating our religious and cultural narratives, we can move beyond the limitations of the patriarchal paradigm and create a future where all aspects of the human spirit are honored and celebrated.

This is tough work.  The Catholic church is an incredibly resistant to change institution.  Women continue to be invalidated and devalued as leaders and carriers of the divine impulse.  The electrical industry also serves as an example of how far we have come, and how far we have to go.

The Intricate Dance of Gender Balance in the Workplace: A Closer Look at Electrical Construction

It’s a phenomenon that continues to baffle organizational theorists and social engineers alike: the persistent difficulty in achieving a balanced coexistence of masculine and feminine energies in the workplace. Nowhere is this more evident than in traditionally male-dominated fields such as electrical construction. The interplay of societal norms, workplace culture, and gender dynamics create a labyrinthine challenge that resists simple solutions.

The foundation of this issue lies in deeply entrenched gender roles and societal expectations. From an early age, individuals are often funneled into roles deemed appropriate for their gender. For men, this has historically meant physical, labor-intensive roles—like those found in electrical construction. Women, on the other hand, have been guided toward caregiving and service-oriented professions. Breaking free from these prescribed paths is not just a matter of personal choice; it involves swimming upstream against a torrent of cultural inertia.

Workplace culture in industries like electrical construction often mirrors the exclusivity of a private club—where the unspoken rules are steeped in masculinity. This environment can be unwelcoming or even hostile to women, creating a palpable tension that is difficult to dispel. In such settings, women often find themselves constantly navigating a minefield of microaggressions and overt discrimination, making it hard to cultivate a sense of belonging and inclusion.

Another critical factor perpetuating the gender imbalance is the glaring lack of female role models and mentors in these fields. Representation matters—not only for inspiring future generations but for providing logistical and emotional support to those currently in the industry. The scarcity of women in high-ranking positions sends a disheartening message to aspiring female electricians: that their career advancement will be an uphill battle fraught with obstacles not faced by their male counterparts.

Adding another layer to this complex issue is the challenge of balancing work and personal life. Flexible working arrangements and supportive policies are often scarce in industries like electrical construction, where the nature of the work demands rigid schedules and physical presence. This disproportionately affects women, who, in many households, still shoulder the majority of caregiving responsibilities. The lack of flexibility can be a significant deterrent, dissuading many women from pursuing or continuing careers in such demanding fields.

Moreover, the personal lives of employees inevitably bleed into the professional sphere. Many men entering the workforce bring with them unresolved issues from troubled marriages and family dysfunctions. These unresolved tensions can manifest in the workplace, where men may project their frustrations and misunderstandings about healthy male-female relationships onto their female colleagues. Interestingly, women who bravely enter these male-dominated trades often find themselves needing to develop a thick skin—or, as observed, a higher proportion of these women identify as homosexual. This demographic tends to brush off the patriarchal and sometimes obnoxious behavior of their male counterparts more readily, navigating the toxic dynamics with a detachment not always possible for their heterosexual colleagues.

Addressing these challenges requires a multi-faceted approach:

  • Cultural Transformation: Organizations must actively work to create inclusive environments where all employees feel valued and respected. This involves not only policy changes but also a shift in attitudes and behaviors.
  • Targeted Recruitment and Retention: Efforts should be made to attract and retain women in these industries through scholarships, internships, and other supportive programs.
  • Mentorship Programs: Establishing mentorship programs can provide the necessary guidance and support for women navigating these challenging career paths.
  • Work-Life Balance: Implementing flexible working arrangements and supportive policies can help alleviate the additional burdens often borne by women, making it easier for them to thrive in demanding fields.

The quest for gender balance in the workplace, particularly in fields like electrical construction, is akin to a complex dance—requiring coordinated efforts, mutual respect, and a willingness to challenge the status quo. While the road ahead is undoubtedly fraught with challenges, the potential rewards—a more inclusive, equitable, and harmonious workplace—are well worth the effort.

 


Bruce

Presently, I am 67 years old, and I am learning how to live the life of a retired person. I am married to Sharon White, a retired hospice nurse, and writer. Whose Death Is It Anyway-A Hospice Nurse Remembers Sharon is a wonderful friend and life partner of nearly 30 years. We have three grandsons through two of Sharon's children. I am not a published writer or poet. My writings are part of my new life in retirement. I have recently created a blog, and I began filling it up with my writings on matters of recovery and spirituality. I saw that my blog contained enough material for a book, so that is now my new intention, to publish a book, if only so that my grandsons can get to know who their grandfather really was, once I am gone. The title for my first book will be: Penetrating The Conspiracy Of Silence, or, How I Lived Beyond My Expiration Date I have since written 7 more books, all of which are now posted on this site. I have no plans to publish any of them, as their material is not of general interest, and would not generate enough income to justify costs. I have taken a deep look at life, and written extensively about it from a unique and rarely communicated perspective. Some of my writing is from 2016 on to the present moment. Other writing covers the time prior to 1987 when I was a boy, then an addict and alcoholic, with my subsequent recovery experience, and search for "Truth". Others are about my more recent experiences around the subjects of death, dying, and transformation, and friends and family having the most challenging of life's experiences. There are also writings derived from my personal involvement with and insight into toxic masculinity, toxic religion, toxic capitalism, and all of their intersections with our leadere. These topics will not be a draw for all people, as such personal and/or cultural toxicities tends to get ignored, overlooked, or "normalized" by those with little time for insight, introspection, or interest in other people's points of view on these troubling issues. There also will be a couple of writings/musings about "GOD", but I try to limit that kind of verbal gymnastics, because it is like chasing a sunbeam with a flashlight. Yes, my books are non-fiction, and are not good reading for anybody seeking to escape and be entertained. Some of the writings are spiritual, philosophical and intellectual in nature, and some descend the depths into the darkest recesses of the human mind. I have included a full cross section of all of my thoughts and feelings. It is a classic "over-share", and I have no shame in doing so. A Master Teacher once spoke to me, and said "no teacher shall effect your salvation, you must work it out for yourself". "Follow new paths of consciousness by letting go of all of the mental concepts and controls of your past". This writing represents my personal work towards that ultimate end.